Single mom by choice
I am 45 years old and have never found a husband so I am going to use a sperm donor. True there have been men in my life that would want to co-parent with me but I don’t want them raising my child. I am sorry to say but I think children being raised by single women is better due to the rape culture we live in. Let’s face it, most men objectify women and watch pornography and women and children are raped at pendemic rates in ths country. This tells me we are raising rapists. We are letting boys isolate with porn and video games that portray women as strippers and hookers. We also have the media ( which is run by men) going against us and rap music that denigrades women. We teach boys to be victimizers and girls to be victims. This is why I know I will be an amazing mother. I will teach my children how to respect themselves and others. Also, corporal punishment, even minor slapping, contributes to the violence that plaques our world. If it is illegal to hit an adult than it should be illegal to hit children. Are they not people too? We must remember a child’s brain is not even fully developed until they are 25. So you see I cannot trust a partner to share these parenting goals with me. Not to mention covert incest which is unreportable and happens more often than you think….I surveyed 50 people and 47 had been abused. And it affects the child the same as overt sexual abuse. Most people have behavioral disorders because we are raising them wrong. I have yet to meet a healthy, un-agressive, spiritual, sober man who doesn’t lose his temper. So in this harsh, patriarchal society where women are still not treated equal, I am proud to become a single mother by choice. And yes, I stand by the belief that children are better off raised only by women. The reason men can have chuldren up until their 70’s and women cannot is because the men are not needed….it’s Ok if they die shortly after the child is born….but not the mother, that is why there is a biological time clock on women and not men.
Okay I am done with my rant….hahaha.