RE: I am not your father

“My family is not your paternal family. If you have a second parent, embrace them. I am not your parent. I am not your father. You have my genes. Thats it.”
AWESOME! I have your genes!?! wow. I feel fantastically special…
Oh… wait.. you just said your family isnt my paternal family. Hate to break it to you buddy, but whether you want to believe it or not, you ARE my paternal father. IF I have a second parent? I don’t. I have had a single, hard working mother my whole life, and because of the fact that I don’t know you- her and I do not have a relationship. You sadly, like many other men, are so other childrens father. You ARE their paternal father, because it came out of your wang. Not their step dads. So please. Save what you think is your pride and diginity and leave this site with your intuition of thinking youre saving yours and men like yours butts. Youre not. You men, whether you fantasize about a lady or lad or what, fathered us.

“I WAS given up. My dad signed away any right to knowing me or having any presence in my life.” – whoever wrote this is very correct. with all due respect, your opinions from OUR side are wrong and dont know what theyre talking about. please understand that we get where youre coming from but you are so very much wrong on who we are and what we feel about this.