I am not your father

To the respondant of my message ‘with love, 120S’
I did not ‘father’ you. I allowed loving people to have their dream, a child, you. I helped your parents become parents. No child gets to pick their parents. You are no more an object than any other child.
All children are objects in their parents world. You are front and centre. You would not be traded for all the world. You will be adored by people tuely want YOU.
You are even more loved, and wanted, than a biologically standard child. Your parent(s) put in far more effort. A child with your origins will be loved more, and have more resources than any other. You will have fewer sibilings, and be born to someone that desperately wants to be a parent. You will not be considered a mistake, ignored, or neglected. Unlike standard children.
My family is not your paternal family. If you have a second parent, embrace them. I am not your parent. I am not your father. You have my genes. Thats it.
Your genetic siblings are not half-brothers & half-sisters. We are not your true family. Your parents are the people that raised you. You were not ‘given up’, because you would not exist otherwise. You exist because your parents wanted you.
I have not disowned my biological children. When they turn up, I will embrace them. I want to meet them. I want them to not have to go thru the obvious unhappyness of some of the children on this site. They are not children I ‘didn’t want’, they are children that simply would not exist. Do you really feel reality would be better off without you? Because if so, you are utterly wrong.
You are among the most loved humans, ever.
I have considered that. It is why donating is the best thing I have ever done, will do, and could ever do. I have helped people have healthy children.
All children go thru rebellion and growing pains. I believe that is what most of the screams on here are about. Lashing out at your parents is what all children do. I did. Try not to hurt the people that love you.
With Love 120S