Hard decision from an infertile couple

I wish we could conceive naturally. My husband and I cannot. We have tried everything including failed ivf with my own eggs. We are a loving family, financially stable, supportive, nature-loving, adventurous, happy. I’ve always dreamed of raising a child the way I was raised- best childhood ever. We’ve been told by several doctors our only hope of having a child is through egg donation or adoption. And adoption is not an option for us. But reading these posts, I’m now hesitating. I would never want to cause my child pain by using egg donation. I feel hopeless.